Ever wonder “When is my turn?” Watched all your friends around you get into relationships, get engaged, get married, all while you stay single? Wondered what you’re doing wrong and what you could be doing differently to snag that guy or girl you’ve wanted? Yeah. So has Ashley.

Ashley’s a 27 year old interior designer from New York City, who is trying to decide whether she wants to be a photographer, a writer, a blogger, or simply just travel the world for the rest of her life, drinking wine and eating chocolate. She’s also been single for for three years.

If she’s been single for three years, what makes her so qualified to give advice on relationships? It’s not like her swagger has exactly been working out.

However, after dating men she’s met in bars, on the subway, or out on the street, with three years of online dating under her belt, she knows a thing or two. She can tell you about what works, what doesn’t, and why you should never give up hope. She wants to turn her mistakes and blunders into lessons you can learn from and save yourself some trouble navigating though the tricky waters of online dating.

Ashley can be reached at ashley@e-swagger.com.